Depression sucks

There’s no logical pattern to when PTSD symptoms will hit me, but I can usually tell when depression is on its way over. I try to ignore it, but like a socially awkward friend that just doesn’t read body language, it just keeps creeping over to say “hello”.

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Awkward smiles on the zoo train

So here I am, lonely but constantly with my daughter whom I am responsible for caring for while my wife is out of the country. Not impossible, but spending time with her does not abate nor negate the loneliness I feel. The nagging feeling that I’m doing it all wrong: that I’m not doing enough work to stay employed, that I’m not spending enough time making quality memories for my daughter. That she’s seeing me in tears more often than I’d like, and that she’s not crying half as much as I am and what kind of man cries more than a 4-year-old girl every day, and how can I be honest with her that I’m sad for me and happy for Mommy at the same time and no, she won’t be able to join us for dinner because she’s touring a famous crystal factory in Ireland and I miss her, too, sweet pea.

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Jessica and her dad enjoying a lifelong dream together

Depression makes me relive all those feelings and conversations at the same time, all jumbled together and without regard to reasonable rest times between rounds, or where I am at the moment. On the phone with my folks wishing me happy birthday? Bam! Can’t speak, eyes are leaking. Ordering a sandwich at Chick-fil-A? I’m sure the nervous teenager won’t mind that I’m crying as I add a large lemonade. Some work needs to get done because people are counting on me, but typing from the fetal position is a challenge, I tell ya.

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So depression sucks. It’s sneaky, but not necessarily unanticipated; it’s like a fight that is planned in advanced, but the date keeps shifting so you’re never really rest for it. The fighters prepare as best they can, but even seasoned fighters will tell you plans change when you take that first hit. Well I’ve been getting beat up for three days and it’s time to fight back as best as I can: more meds, more focus, more snuggles, more coffee, more playtime, tea time, and doll time. I may not win the fight this time, but I’ll keep swinging as best as I can. If I’m alive after, I can count that as a win.

Google Play Movies Error “-22” on OnePlus

“There was a problem while playing [-22]” is the message that greeted me every time I tried to view a video in Google Play Movies & TV. I’m running CyanogenMod 12 (CM12S/Android 5.0.2) on a OnePlus One and like to test out apps, so maybe it was one of the new ones. After several hours of removing and reinstalling apps, chatting with tech support, searching for an error message that seems to be pretty rare, I hadn’t gotten very far.

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Toggle NuPlayer support in the CM developer settings to play videos once again.

Since it worked fine in safe mode, I finally bit the bullet and did a factory reset on my phone. That worked, but as soon as I restored my backup, the problem came back, but this time I noticed that I couldn’t play any videos through the default player or the Google Photos app. Another search for video player problems indicated there’s an issue with the experimental video player, and to toggle the NuPlayer/AwesomePlayer settings in the developer settings. Violà!

I’m back to watching my Shaun the Sheep videos and all is right in the world once again.